Which of these outcomes do you find most compelling?

We know what works and what doesn’t for us, and we can stop what’s not working readily, and switch to a working track swiftly.

We are always allies against issues, problems, ordeals, and stresses. We are never adversaries against each other.

Our ‘fights’ feel fair and finish friendly.  We never waste a good conflict, using them to forge stronger bonds despite our differences.

Our relationship feels fair, balanced, and mutually nurturing to both of us.  We can each grow and flourish in the soil of our marriage.

We admire and respect each other.  We enjoy loving each other and like each other’s company.

We help each other fulfill dreams and the yearnings of our hearts.  We share our innermost secrets and treat them with great respect.