Which of these tools would make the most difference in your life together?

Tactics based on solid research (not just theoretical guessing), tested and tweaked with more than 5000 couples over our combined 50 years of professional helping.

A step-by-step road map for how to grow healthy love and feel happy with each other, even if you’ve both got issues and you’re far from perfectly compatible.

Communication strategies that use simple keys (as easy as fill-in-the-blank) to create intensely personal, heart-touching, soul-stirring dialogues, for both females and males.  Especially if you come from different planets.

Practical, easy-to-follow, detailed instructions for what to say and do when you hit the rough patches. You’ll never want to waste a good conflict again.

Power tools for creating alliance, connection, mutual compassion, and empathy, so you can always feel that “we” is good for both “me’s”. Even when you’re fed up with each other.

Stories and games and playful ways to rewrite the scripted interactions between you, the old tapes and family-styled patterns of relating so engrained you have to scrape your souls to be rid of their sticky residue.